my advice

one of my friends just asked me for advice about his relationship with his girl, then i thought to myself why do all of my friends come to me for retlationship advice when im not even in a relationship. so basically he is in a long distance relationship with his girl and he feels that they are growing apart more and more. it also doesnt help that another girl is catching his eye. i honestly didnt know what to tell him, but i asked him what he will be gaining and what he will be loosing. now im not a relationship expert or anything but i just told him to follow his heart. all i know is if i was in a relationship and my girl was having second thoughts about how she was feeling about me, i would rather her tell me so we can talk about it so we can do whats best for ourselfs and not the relationship. for any of those who are in the same situation, i will tell u what i told my friend... just follow your heart, well better yet let your heart and your mind be in sync so that you can come up with the best decision for yourself