cheating

so my sister asked my what i thought about cheating the other day. i am glad to say that i never cheated on any girl i dated. but i have fooled around with girls who have had boyfriends. so does that make me a cheater? or a bad guy? is it really my fault that the girl fell for my charm? these are all questions i ask myself when i have situations like that. but cheating to me is a different story when it comes to relationships. i dont cheat bc i feel it is wrong, i feel if i give my heart to someone im going to give them my whole heart and not pieces. if a person cheats on you its almost as if they do/did not care about you. the heart is fragile and anything can cause it to break. i think the reason i dont have a relationship now is bc i dont want to get my heart broken by someone cheating on me. i know i should just jump into the relationship game bc its fun to get to know people, but cant two people get to know each other and not have a relationship? i just dont want to get my heart broken over some girl cheating on me.